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Filed under: Life — Hawkwind @ 01:33:53 pm

Dear Jed and Lindsey,

About two months ago I met a guy named Jeff off the internet (yeah for being
a dork). Well, we hung out and things went okay for a while. One night I had
to hang out at Jeffs house alone while his roommate, Sam, was there. Turns
out, me and Sam got along GREAT! I mean, Sam and I got along so well that I
found myself wanting to go over to see him instead. Eventually Sam and I
started talking online and about getting together without mentioning it to
Jeff. Sam wanted to let me know that he thought I was so much better than
all the other girls Jeff brought home. He also told me a lot of dirt on
Jeff, so he let me in on how the guy I WAS seeing really was. One thing
led to another and I ended up telling Sam that I really liked him, and that
I was VERY attracted to him. WAY more than Jeff! Sam FIT what I wanted with
both looks and personality. So now Sam and I have continued things and
have seen each other when Jeff wasn't home. Making sure I leave before he
gets home. Things are over with Jeff in my mind, but I really want things
to work out with Sam. I will never be able to go over there when they both
are there, or can I? Jeff has a "girlfriend" apparently, but is still butt
hurt that I turned him down. I mean REALLY butt hurt about it!! He continues
to write blogs about me on his homepage sending little innuendos, and also
tells me he doesnt understand why I dont like him any more. Come on deal
with it!! Do you think it would be wise for Sam or I to confront Jeff and
let him know that we are interested (very much) in each other? Or should we
just sneak around until we know FOR SURE that Sam and I will last, just so
that it wont affect the guys relationship? Cause thats what I am worried
about most. I don't want them to get in a fight, or worse, have Jeff throw
Sam out of the house because he went after me.
What do you think?
By the way I really, really like Sam. I could give a shit about the original
guy, Jeff, he is a total liar and freak who got pissed over little shit. Not
my type at all I found out.

First off both of these dudes sound like dorks. Jeff is obviously a loser if he is writing about you on his homepage. It doesnt even sound like you guys really dated. I think you need to have a real relationship with someone before you do crazy shit like that. Ive done some fucked up embarrassing shit in the past but this with girls that I dated for years. People I lived with. Not some chick I met on the internet and hung out with. Youre right to not want to be with that kinda guy.

Then you got Sam. What kinda buddy snakes his best friends girlfriend. The part about talking shit about Jeff is the oldest trick in the book. Guys always tell girls a bunch of shit about some dude being a player or whatever. We just say what we want you to hear. Sam knew you liked him so he was just talking shit saying the guy doesn’t treat you right and you deserve better. These are just lines to get you naked. I know this because it works.

If Sam really liked you he would have the guts to tell his roommate. Regardless if he likes you or not he should tell his roommate. As crazy as Jeff sounds I bet he wont even care in a week. Plus he fucked you first so hell always have that on Sam.

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