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10/24/05

These are the Breaks

Filed under: Life, Sex — Hawkwind @ 02:25:37 pm

My name is Geoffrey......lately I have had some troubles with my woman. I am 25 and just graduated from college. She is 21 and just beginning college.
We have been together for 3 years, but we have hit a rocky patch. We were talking the other day and she mentioned that maybe we should take a break, and I agreed because I need to get my shit together as well. I have no job and neither of us have vehicles. We live about 30 min away from each other so it is pretty hard for us to hang out.

The problem is that I love this girl. She loves me, but we do not know what to do. Taking a break is hard. I kind of have a crush on a girl from school, but she is always busy. I dont want to break up with my present girlfriend because I feel that if I do that I will lose her forever, but I cant handle this break thing because she still wants to hang out, but not have sex. That is too hard for me. She calls me all the time and I answer, but I cant stop wondering why things have to be different only in the sex department, it is like why hang out if we cannot do that, but I love her...I am messed up man. What should I do?

Sincerely,

On a break without sex

The easy answer here is to break up with your current girlfriend. You did not have one positive thing to say about your relationship with her other then you love her and you think she loves you as well. I think if she loved you she would not want to take a break. She would also give it up. That is how chicks should truly say I love you. We do not need to hear it. My suggestion to women and this is a bit off subject but the more fucked up things you let us do to you in the bedroom like fucking you in the ass while shoving our fingers down your throat the more confident we feel in the relationship. But for you Geoffrey my advice, and this is only if you are too big of a pussy to break up with her, is bang as many chicks as possible until the break is over. You will either realize that you do not want to be with her and that you are better off dating other girls or she will find out and get really jealous and want you back. This is your chance to tell her that you need sex (again preferably anal) and if she would fuck you then you wouldn't have to go around with other girls.

I have a feeling that you may be lacking some confidence though so if it is hard for you to hook up with chicks just tell her that you did anyway.

I do not believe in breaks. They are stupid. If you want to have an open relationship based on distance or whatever good luck, but taking a break is just the long drawn out and ultimately more painful way to break up with someone. It gives you too much of a reason to fuck somebody else.

Comments

  1. Jed that is a fucked up thing to say in regards to the "dont say you love us just let us fuck you, sodomize you and strangulate you not to mention choke you while having sex" I mean then why have a girlfriend just go to the asian spa I mean come on the only difference is you might not have to pay your chick - Look here is the deal...
    I agree with Jed when he says fuck the breaking up shit. Your girlfriend is probably interested in some jock at college whos always looking to bang a freshman. Thats college man! So dont sit there and think you are the only one with a secret crush. Look the break is her way of having her cake and eating it. The sex is a control factor- see women think if you dont fuck them that youll miss their pussy, especially if your insecure and stupid to fall in love with a 21 year old .. I mean 21 your girlfriend can now take her 1st drink. Shes searching for herself, shes a furball of hormones who's probably going to fuck the entire swim team on web cam!!!
    Before you fall in love with someone you gotta have your shit together- no girl wants a loser... get a car, get a job, get a bachelor pad!! what are you gonna catch the bus and go out on a date? See men dont realize this but a woman needs one of 2 things - a good dick or a man with money or enough to have fun...
    Jed is right she dosent love you because if you love someone you dont want to be away from them especially if youre 30 min apart.
    Ditch the bitch... get a bad ass job, with a bad ass car and a bad ass pad, dont fuck the bitch, dont call her and when she comes over rush her out after like 15min with like imaginary plans... date girls from her school - and when you have your shit together shell come running back for the successful, nice guy with the cool ride and guess what.. you could introduce her to INGA your swedish girlfriend from Theather Arts -
    And Jed, try this at home .. stick 2 of your fingers up your asshole, and the other 2 down your throat and while rubbing your dick simutaneously up and down while laying on a pillow -how does that feel for some true lovin' hehe

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/24/05 @ 21:21

  2. i tried it icequeen. it totally sucked. i take it back. chocking chicks should be left up to proffesionals.

    Comment by Hawkwind [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 00:12

  3. Lmao but the ass fingering was not so bad? Hmmm maybe Ill try it... NOT lol - but no shit though there are professional people whose expertise is in stimulation of sex via strangulation and affixiation -they take you to the edge of dying with enough precision as to not kill you -I saw that on some show? I forget which one...

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 00:26

  4. did you ever hear of the man who was asleep and dreaming that he was wrestling a deer down and trying to kill it and the whole while, he was almost choking his wife to death???

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 01:18

  5. ohh that could happen -my sis once dreamt she was in a fight with someone and woke up beating up her pillow -

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 07:38

  6. okay, that just made me laugh......were feathers flying out???? Poor pillow!

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 16:05

  7. no luckily for me feathers werent flyijng out but bad for her cause I tell all the guys shes dating to look out for the left hook...

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 17:25

  8. Ok I keep getting these blogs mixed up so let me rephrase...
    So what has the notorious Hawkwind been up to other than kissing and not telling...

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 17:50

  9. hey Lindz got my email?

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 19:11

  10. hEY THERE. nO, NOT YET BECAUSE i AM LAZY. i WILL CHECK MANANA...hAWKWIND DOESNT KISS AND TELL BECAUSE HE DOESNT NEED TOO....THATS WHY HE GETS MORE AND MORE AND MORE AND MORE UNTIL HE CANT TAKE IT ANYMORE AND HAS TO TELL. tHUS, ALL THE USES OF FUCK AND SHIT AND DESCRIPTIONS OF THINGS YOU REALLY CANT IMAGINE HIM DOING, BUT STILL DONT KNOW FOR SURE, WHICH MAKES YOU THINK MORE AND MORE AND MORE.......UNTIL YOU GIVE IT UP....AND BECOME A NUMBER...........

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/25/05 @ 19:50

  11. I think Hawkwind is a good kid who probably dosent get laid as much as he says but still gets by. I think hes sexually freaky mentally but when it comes down to love making he wants to be held after an orgasm... but Lindz ...whatever you do DONT GIVE IT UP heheh seems like those 3am phone calls are getting to ya.. lol

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/26/05 @ 14:06

  12. yea lindz don't give it up. i can't count that high anyways.

    Comment by Hawkwind [Member] — 10/26/05 @ 14:52

  13. WAIT WAIT WAIT ... Why is it that Linz has to be your number Hawkwind? How come YOU cant be Linz's number? Like Linz HAwkwind could be like number ...... ____ I dont know as opposed to you being like Jed's first hahahah

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/26/05 @ 15:18

  14. So hawkwind whats that number like maybe I could live vicariously through you except without the fingers in the ass deal and the shitting during sex -as it stands Im going on a year and almost a month of not being laid - its fun actually - its like being a vegatarian and then finally eating meat, you have to like statr slowly and you dont really acquire an appetite for it - but once you bite a piece of that T bone steak grilled in butter and lemon mannnn .. you just want to go bite a cow... ok ok sorry .. I get carried away - ok this might change the number but how many girls have you actually made orgasm?

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/26/05 @ 16:05

  15. If I gave it up to Hawkwind then I would be concluding his count, and I know I cant do that. I really want too, but I just have to keep my distance. Its really hard, I mean, I want to jump his bones, but you know how it goes........life sucks sometimes.

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/26/05 @ 18:19

  16. jump Hawkwinds bones... you mean youd let him finger your ass and choke you? Gosh Linz and you know youd have to give him the anus. See Hawkwind might be a weeeee bit attractive to me if he wasnt about the anus or fingering the anus or choking an anus... anus anus anus, that and if he was 6' tall at least and was asian/ or metrosexual or liked say ... Joe Satrianni ..but metrosexuals seldom like Satrianni so - Ill keep looking -

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/27/05 @ 00:37

  17. COME ON. NOONE IS JUMPING BONES ON THIS SITE. THERE SHALL ONLY BE LOVEMAKING and LOVEMAKING ONLY. GROW UP. hahahahhahahahaha!!!

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/27/05 @ 20:43

  18. I'm actually saving myself for something i like to call marriage.

    Comment by Hawkwind [Member] — 10/28/05 @ 10:52

  19. you know what I honestly believe that Hawkwind -

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/28/05 @ 13:31

  20. me too, me too! hip hop hooray! HO!!!!!!!!!!! In reality.

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/29/05 @ 02:07

  21. It is in my experience that the ones who talk the most, have the freakest of imaginations are rarely the ones doing it because of constraint they have the most to say to vent frustrations..So it wouldnt surprise me if Hawkwind was in fact in a committed relationship or is actually saving himself for marriage or just not that active sexually by choice - or he could very well be a Ho but Im banking on him being a big tease...

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/29/05 @ 12:44

  22. I dont know on that one.....I am guessing he has had a lot of sex....a lot that he cannot remember. But, I could be way off.

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/29/05 @ 15:42

  23. its like me I talk alot of shit but when it comes down to things I am pretty responsible and level headed - except when Im drunk but that is a thing of the past hhehe

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/29/05 @ 16:18

  24. Yea, I would agree that hawkwind is responsible. Way more responsible than myself. Right now anyways. When I was young I was extremely responsible, so I guess I am letting it all hang out now.

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 10/29/05 @ 17:40

  25. I was a huge nerd in HS - debate team, academic decathelon, theather arts ... then I partied for awhile, now I m in between nerdom and club kid -

    Comment by icequeen [Member] — 10/29/05 @ 18:46

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