These are the Breaks
My name is Geoffrey......lately I have had some troubles with my woman. I am 25 and just graduated from college. She is 21 and just beginning college.
We have been together for 3 years, but we have hit a rocky patch. We were talking the other day and she mentioned that maybe we should take a break, and I agreed because I need to get my shit together as well. I have no job and neither of us have vehicles. We live about 30 min away from each other so it is pretty hard for us to hang out.
The problem is that I love this girl. She loves me, but we do not know what to do. Taking a break is hard. I kind of have a crush on a girl from school, but she is always busy. I dont want to break up with my present girlfriend because I feel that if I do that I will lose her forever, but I cant handle this break thing because she still wants to hang out, but not have sex. That is too hard for me. She calls me all the time and I answer, but I cant stop wondering why things have to be different only in the sex department, it is like why hang out if we cannot do that, but I love her...I am messed up man. What should I do?
Sincerely,
On a break without sex
The easy answer here is to break up with your current girlfriend. You did not have one positive thing to say about your relationship with her other then you love her and you think she loves you as well. I think if she loved you she would not want to take a break. She would also give it up. That is how chicks should truly say I love you. We do not need to hear it. My suggestion to women and this is a bit off subject but the more fucked up things you let us do to you in the bedroom like fucking you in the ass while shoving our fingers down your throat the more confident we feel in the relationship. But for you Geoffrey my advice, and this is only if you are too big of a pussy to break up with her, is bang as many chicks as possible until the break is over. You will either realize that you do not want to be with her and that you are better off dating other girls or she will find out and get really jealous and want you back. This is your chance to tell her that you need sex (again preferably anal) and if she would fuck you then you wouldn't have to go around with other girls.
I have a feeling that you may be lacking some confidence though so if it is hard for you to hook up with chicks just tell her that you did anyway.
I do not believe in breaks. They are stupid. If you want to have an open relationship based on distance or whatever good luck, but taking a break is just the long drawn out and ultimately more painful way to break up with someone. It gives you too much of a reason to fuck somebody else.
I agree with Jed when he says fuck the breaking up shit. Your girlfriend is probably interested in some jock at college whos always looking to bang a freshman. Thats college man! So dont sit there and think you are the only one with a secret crush. Look the break is her way of having her cake and eating it. The sex is a control factor- see women think if you dont fuck them that youll miss their pussy, especially if your insecure and stupid to fall in love with a 21 year old .. I mean 21 your girlfriend can now take her 1st drink. Shes searching for herself, shes a furball of hormones who's probably going to fuck the entire swim team on web cam!!!
Before you fall in love with someone you gotta have your shit together- no girl wants a loser... get a car, get a job, get a bachelor pad!! what are you gonna catch the bus and go out on a date? See men dont realize this but a woman needs one of 2 things - a good dick or a man with money or enough to have fun...
Jed is right she dosent love you because if you love someone you dont want to be away from them especially if youre 30 min apart.
Ditch the bitch... get a bad ass job, with a bad ass car and a bad ass pad, dont fuck the bitch, dont call her and when she comes over rush her out after like 15min with like imaginary plans... date girls from her school - and when you have your shit together shell come running back for the successful, nice guy with the cool ride and guess what.. you could introduce her to INGA your swedish girlfriend from Theather Arts -
And Jed, try this at home .. stick 2 of your fingers up your asshole, and the other 2 down your throat and while rubbing your dick simutaneously up and down while laying on a pillow -how does that feel for some true lovin' hehe
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