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My take on anal sex

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1. omg... that is fucking funny. true though.

   Comment by makeupgirl [Member] — 07/10/05 @ 11:43

2. There is a fourth girl you left out Jed, although, to be fair, it is really just a subset of the last type you described. however, in the interest of fairness, I think the distinction needs to be made. There is a type of woman that hates anal sex, not because she hasn't tried it, but because it hurts! This type of woman will not have sex with just anyone, she is very discriminating, but also very free and open. If you reach a level of trust in your relationship with her, she will love the feeling of surrending completely to you, and when she does, the pain goes away, and she will beg you for more. Not as a 'victory lap', but as foreplay, as an act of complete submission.. Then, after she's orgasmed (not like I'm speaking from personal experience) you will be closer than ever. Of course, she'll still hate anal sex, but the idea of it, and the anticipation will drive her crazy.

   Comment by urbanchick [Visitor] — 07/10/05 @ 23:59

3. very insightful urbanchick. your ideas intrigue me, i would like to subscribe to your newsletter.

   Comment by Hawkwind [Member] — 07/11/05 @ 19:22

4. Do any of these types include the "technical virgin"--you know, the girl who ONLY has anal sex because she's saving her vagina for her true love and/or marriage?

   Comment by Euphoria [Visitor] — 07/11/05 @ 20:30

5. Ok.. how about the fifth girl, the one that says, this shit really hurts, as much as I like/love you I can't really get into it, back the fuck up. While she really may have tried it for the sake of experimenting, she realizes that really it's not for her, his penis up her then virgin ass felt like she was about to take a shit on herself, but you know we tried and honey I just don't like it. This girl is sure of herself. She knows what she wants and dosent. No means no. Sex is not a manipulation to her while she lacks there she can copensate otherwise. For sure submissivness is not an option, unless maybe she lives in fucking Iraq, muchless submissiveness to achieve a level of closeness to her partner, as to say if someone sticks a dick up your ass you can become closer. And even though you hate anal sex you anticipate it because..what? He really likes it. Sounds like a girl with low self esteem: I guess the good thing about these girls is that they would do anything for a man without consideration for themselves. Shit.. I date her too.

   Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/11/05 @ 20:42

6. I'm sure they exisit Shivanni,, but I'd like to find out how many of them have tried it with a man they truly trust completely. It ican be an act of love, trust, and surrending yourself completely to your mate. A gift between equals. It is only a lowering of yourself if you do not trust your partner completely. The type of girl you described is Jed's type #2, and I submit most of their behaviour can be attributable to trust issues.

   Comment by urbanchick [Member] — 07/11/05 @ 23:17

7. I was thinking my girl would be a sublet of Jed's number 1 but I guess more fun - I do know of many girls/women who enjoy anal sex on a casual level with people they don't care to be emotionally tied to. An act of love, trust and surrendering to me is say when someone vows to honor, protect, respect,take care of you. Someone who proves that they can be there for you when most needed.Surrendering one's self I take to mean breaking down walls, overcoming obstacles and accepting one for whom one is. A gift between equals if applying in a sexual scenario could mean any sexual act where both people give of themselves freely... not because one person wants it and the other is even the slightest bit hesitant. There are many ways to lower one's self I prefer the lowering of my knees and elbows, lowering my head ...with a trusted partner. In my own opinion I think that there is somethng wrong for your girl type to lower her ass on some dick if she dosent enjoy it just to be closer to her partner. I thnk that her partner is feeding her some bullshit and she is buying.

   Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/11/05 @ 23:53

8. Of course there are girls who enjoy it, as a sex act on it's own, without the attendant issues of trust and love, but that's type 2, and it's been covered.
   As for your psychoanalysis of this hypothetical girl, again, it comes down to trust issues. First of all, "the slightest bit hesitant" doesn't sound like a trusting relationship. Neither does the scenario you describe, of one partner wanting it despite the others misgivings. And this ficticious scenario of "her partner feeding her bullshit." ...what you are describing sounds like an abusive relationship,, in which misgivings abound, the exact wrong situation in which to start experimenting with anal sex. It would make it hard to trust that anyone could enjoy the act of submission in any circumstance.
   And don't kid yourself about the female empowerment angle, lots of guys enjoy the act of submission too, both gay and straight.
   
   I don't mean to keep rambling on about this, but I am responding to your anger and bitterness Shivani. Where does it come from?

   Comment by urbanchick [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 01:18

9. "anger and bitterness"not the least bit, and I think you are getting your wires crossed here just to clarify: My point is: 1. Not all women enjoy anal sex.
   2. Some women who prefer to not have anal sex are still a great bang in bed.
   3. Women who do not prefer anal sex should not be manipulated into thinking that anal sex equals closeness with partner.
   4. I think that women who dislike the act but do it anyways to achieve closeness to a partner are in fact women who possibly are prone to enter into abusive relationships.
   5. I disagree that anal sex is performed on a trust basis - not true ,people have casual anal sex all the time.
   Look..basically thats my opinion. I think that given the demographics of the site there are still people (esp) women who read this that may not be as experienced as others.(or men who may view this and use it as a guilt tactic) I just think that spreading the message that even if you don't enjoy anal sex, if you do it, it's telling your partner that you trust them and surrender to them is b.s -and even if you dont like anal sex , the anticipation of pleasing your lover will drive you crazy- that Im sorry is the wrong message.
   I thnk it is safer to say, if anal sex is something you dont enjoy, then dont do it. If a man cannot respect you or trust you or surrender to you because he cant stick his dick up your ass then maybe thats not the right guy for you. Im confused- are you a guy or a dildo recruiter?

   Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 09:48

10. "Im confused- are you a guy or a dildo recruiter? "
    
    Sounds angry and bitter to me.
    
    Let me deal with this on a point by point basis:
    I - I never said that all women do, or should enjoy anal sex.
    2 - I said nothing about how a good a lay a girl not into anal is.
    3- You can't seem to get past this issue of manipulation. There was nothing to say the other partner was pushing for it, or that their feelings were the same as the ones I described, or that there was any manipulation going on at all. You seem to have invented this scenario in your head of an abusive man, and a weak woman. If this is the only paradigm in which you see anal sex working, no wonder you are so opposed to it.
    
    4 - If that was the only reason they did something they didn't want to, then, yes, that sounds desperate, and I clarified that in an earlier post. I said it could bring you closer, not it would. The result is entirely dependent on 1) your comfort level (regardless of trust) and 2) how the decision to proceed was reached. If it's a mutual decision between two consenting adults, what business is it of yours?
    
    5 - I have also already pointed out that there are people who enjoy it on a casual basis, that's Jed's type 2. (remeber the original post?)
    
    You have every right to your opinion, and you have a right to express it, as I have a right to express mine. If you choose to attack me because of it, go ahead, but there is no need to be insulting, or rude.
    
    

    Comment by urbanchick [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 10:44

11. Actually you are right about my last remark being rude, that was a bit off track and I did think I went a bit too far on that statement, but honestly the thought crossed my mind... (maybe I should have used a different terminology) in any event.. Ill say this im not angry I just think that your original post was just a bit false as far as encouraging a person who obviously is uncomfrtable with the issue to try it anyways as a means of acquiring trust or rather developing trustful relationships, or doing it just to please your partner...
    
    "There is a type of woman that hates anal sex, not because she hasn't tried it, but because it hurts! This type of woman will not have sex with just anyone, she is very discriminating, but also very free and open....If you reach a level of trust in your relationship with her, she will love the feeling of surrending completely to you, and when she does, the pain goes away, and she will beg you for more. Not as a 'victory lap', but as foreplay, as an act of complete submission.." "Of course, she'll still hate anal sex, but the idea of it, and the anticipation will drive her crazy."
    See that sounds off to me..but like you say its your opinion and we differ greatly.. I apologise for the passion...toy..pedler remark but Id like to say for the record that if anal sex hurts, and you dont like it...ya dont have to do it.. I dont think it will bring you any closer to anybody...and the only thing to anticipate is walking around for t he next hour or more feeling like you got a load of you know what stuck up your you know where ...Ok so Im through with this anal thing...check your local drug store for sale listings on K Y Jelly...and please as much as you trust your partner .. please use a condom!

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 14:59

12. Against my better judgment I'm gonna jump in with Shivanni here. Not because I don't agree with him but I just think this debate borders on the absurd.
    
    To address urbanchick's "...but I'd like to find out how many of them have tried it with a man they truly trust completely...," how can a girl ever REALLY trust someone completely when they have tried this and it really fucking HURT?
    
    Not many guys even know the proper way to do it without inflicting pain, so forget about the trust thing. No matter how much you love or trust someone it's still pain and unless a girl's into masochism and gets off on the pain, any man who wants to continue deliberately inflicting pain on his woman as a means of bringing them closer is clearly a sadist and should find himself a nice submissive gal who's actually into it.
    
    Otherwise, I recommend the girl feeling the pain get herself a nice strap-on and show him what it feels like, as a man is actually the one more likely to get a good orgasm out of it by having his prostate stimulated.
    
    Assuming, of course, the girl banging him in the ass has actually done some research into the proper way to have anal sex and isn't just improperly pounding away as many guys do, not realizing the anus is not self-lubricating like a vagina.

    Comment by Euphoria [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 16:11

13. lmao... ouch it hurts just reading that. and guys I am a girl :)

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 16:28

14. I agree with Shivanni also, men often tell women what they want to hear so that they can get women to do things, especially things they dont particular care to do. Urban chick thinks its a subliminal experience and that's good. I'll have what she is smoking. Anal sex hurts and like Shivanni says back the hell up. Shianni is hilarious. Women should stand up for what they believe in than to let people tell them what to do. In my opinion I say if a man could do the booty to a woman he could do the booty to a man cause a booty is a booty. You know every body got eyes, everybody got the ears evrybody got the hands everybody got the booty and they have the same function as everybody elses. Whats the difference in a mans booty and a ladys booty anyways? Like euphoria say men probably like it better too. shivanni post is wild this site is wild.

    Comment by shari [Visitor] — 07/12/05 @ 19:16

15. This thread has gone beyond absurd and into ridiculous. I am responding this way because it has gotten convoluted.
    
    Shari
    
    "men often tell women what they want to hear so that they can get women to do things, especially things they dont particular care to do."
    
    um, wow.
    
    I put forward one womans position, and I am accused of saying there are no manipulative men?
    
    "Urban chick thinks its a subliminal experience" no I don't.
    
    I think it can be a rewarding submissive one, not that it is. Or that it is in any way subliminal. How would that work, he slips it in while you're asleep?
    
    "Whats the difference in a mans booty and a ladys booty anyways"
    
    This is actually a good point. I would like to ask a lot of straight guys that are into anal with women what exactly they think the difference is.
    
    Euphoria
    Otherwise, I recommend the girl feeling the pain get herself a nice strap-on and show him what it feels like.
    
    Yes, and there are those of both sexes that like that.
    
    Not many guys even know the proper way to do it without inflicting pain, so forget about the trust thing. No matter how much you love or trust someone it's still pain and unless a girl's into masochism and gets off on the pain, any man who wants to continue deliberately inflicting pain on his woman as a means of bringing them closer is clearly a sadist and should find himself a nice submissive gal who's actually into it.
    
    This is all salient stuff, and I don't disagree with any of it...well, except "forget about trust" The fact that it hurt when you tried it before with othersmeans it requires a significant amount of trust to try it again.
    
    I've tried cocaine three times. It took me that long to be sure I really didn't like it. But I didn't get the cocaine from just anybody, I would only try it if I got it from someone I trusted.
    
    Shivani
    
    Now before I get accused of encouraging everyone to go get fucked in the ass, I'm just saying if you're going to try it, try it with someone you trust. Who knew that would be such an unpopular opinion?
    
    I have been discussing the use of anal sex by two people in a committed, trusting relationship to enhance said relationship. I put this forward as one possiblity.
    
    You seem completely unable to accept that a sex act (or at least this sex act) can be anything other than casual or abusive, not just for you, but for everybody else. That's fine. That's your position, and you have every right to it.
    
    But if my position is the downward camel...
    
    

    Comment by urbanchick [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 22:55

16. look.. it is a little past midnight, I am finishing up a Guinness and a smoke, this has gone from intersting, to just really sad. You know we have a saying here in Texas, "different strokes for different folks" ... ill take that one literally speaking. But I think we know where we stand on this position or sit...I deal with dicks and assholes all day long,(people in general) so I'm tired of using it in a sentence...I havent argued about anal sex with a man much less with a woman for this length of time.. I feel like we should like.. do it (I am so absolutly joking at this point)anyways, so here's to life, and love and anal sex...
    Bottoms up!

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 00:38

17. I believe what is done sexually between two (or more) consenting adults is up them and no one should tell anyone to do otherwise. Not even in Texas -- apologies to Shivanni, Buddy Holly, and Mike Judge. I also think that urbanchick is on to something. Anal sex is about dominance and submissiveness. Those in the male role want to dominate and those in the female want to be submissive. Now I'm not talking about gender. I'm talking about roles. I think we are all a mix in different proportion of male and female and some, if not most, of us are more one than the other. And the masculine wants to dominate the feminine. Don't believe me? Try to find me a man who doesn't want to stick his member in a female posterior. If you can, then he probably wants to stick his manhood in a male posterior or wants to play a female role. If it's gender-based and not role-based, then how come studies have indicated that a high percentage of lesbian women engage in anal play? It's not about your sex, it's about your role -- dominant and submissive. And I think that for a real submissive, male or female, it probably is a matter of trust. Of accepting your partner completely. And for dominants it's a desire to control your partner completely. I'm paraphrasing, but perhaps Eminem said it best when he said her booty makes me go doiyng doiyng doiyng.

    Comment by lastfree [Visitor] — 07/13/05 @ 03:04

18. I've tried it with past boyfriends and didn't like it. My current boyfriend had an anal experience with one of those vaginal virgins and apparently she liked it. He wants to do it with me but I made the personal choice not to do it again before we even met. He's hurt that I don't trust him as much as my last partners, but that's not the issue. The point is: Anal sex hurts! Even my gay friends agree that Anal-ease doesn't help any, just makes it smell like Cherries when you pull out instead of asshole. An improvement of sorts, but doesn't do anything for the pain. And I resent being compared with his past encounters. Just cause she's got her Christianity fucked up doesn't mean anything about how I'd enjoy anal sex (or NOT).
    
    And I think some of you need to read Paulo Coehlo's "Eleven Minutes" it talks a lot about S&M but he's a respectable writer so you can still read it in public!

    Comment by VivaciousVixen [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 03:33

19. ok..so as to start another absurd thread this may come as a bit of a surprise to some ( I highly doubt it) but my take on oral sex is slightly different from anal-Which is why I am about to agree with
    lastfree on role playing...the deal with not being able to understand submissiveness is because my personality or preferred role is very dominant. Even with everyday life I am extremely dominant. I work in a male dominated field where I assume a leadership position so getting fucked up the butt is not my thing and I think its because Im not about submitting. Oral sex the same...Now before the barrage of attacks and
    anal ysis :) Oral sex on a guy is something that I would do but not my favorite thing in the world. I mean getting fucked in the throat does nothing for me... while I understand guys like it. ( i understand that they too have their G spots there like we do which is much pleasureable with a tongue..) Ill also venture to say ejaculation in the mouth is out of the question, I have great tits for that purpoose. SO for the record whats in it for everyone else? Maybe I m missing something. I get nothing out of it .. I could like read a book and do it or my fav. watch who wants to be a millionaire and do it. On a positive note: I have been told that I do have a talented tongue, I've also heard I was great and I've even had -"I love you" Sex is not so much a big deal for me, I enjoy it, I know Im good at it (I cant get them to leave for the life of me) but I do enjoy a great burger also, I do enjoy intimacy and romance..Before I have sex with a guy and we do all the romance and fun stuff its all cool, I'm sprung but after I have sex with them I just have absolutely no respect for them...which is why I totally understand guys who do one night stands and never calls the girl back the next morning. Thats me. Im like that. Dont cuddle with me, dont talk as a matter of fact Ijust turn up my sterio really loud and proceed to doing something else.. Now before we start with I have commitment issues - I have been a relationship with the same guy for well over 5 years so thats not the case. Sex is about power( I dont know about the love thing nor am I interested) I think you get what you want out of it and then hope to shake hands. Im not one of those Ive been hurt before people so dont go that route as a mattr of fact I am great friends with the people I have been with and I have not been hurt by any of them.. so analyze me.( against my better judgement)

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 12:37

20. Hey Shivani: That is a good topic because women always want to know why a guy dont call them back and we think they dogs and all but maybe there is something more to that unless you a dawg lol..(im playin) maybe when the right man come along itll happen.. as far s oral sex whew.... the satisfaction for me is pleasuring my man cause I know when i do that he'll do me back...maybe you're just going about it with the wrong intention you should do it like to satisfy each other. Doing a bj is not suppose to be fun, its just an act/i dont know its what happens after is what i know. But its not wrong how you feel cause if men can feel like that why cant a woman. We dont analyze the man you know ..they dont call they dont call, you dont respect them you dont respect them thats all..maybe you need a brother lol

    Comment by shari [Visitor] — 07/13/05 @ 13:47

21. a big strong black man lol

    Comment by shari [Visitor] — 07/13/05 @ 13:48

22. It's interesting that some girls like to receive anal sex and some don't. Some only like it after they've had it a few times. And others continue hating it. And yes, it would seem to be painful and if done improperly, excruciatingly painful, but the same thing could be said about getting hit in the head with a frying pan while you masturbate, and there's a lot less people into that then buttf***ing. (I bet I'd be wrong if I said none.) So it seems that there are greater issues than just pain involved, issues like control, pleasure, trust, etc. My disagreement is with the initial blog that categorized women. It was a good opening salvo from which to start a conversation, but Kinsey was right: there are norms and variations in human sexuality, but no rights and wrongs. If you try to categorize people, which this world often makes you do, you end up encrusting the mechancial upon the human. All that being said, my wife is the sexiest woman I know and I can't look at her backside without wanting her. We engage in a lot of anal sex and only once has it been at her urging. She despises it--I mean despises it-- but she loves that I want to possess her femininty so much. And one of the things I enjoy most about it is that moment when she turns from hating it to loving it and craving more. But then again, it's not for everybody.

    Comment by lastfree [Visitor] — 07/13/05 @ 13:56

23. Thanks Shari I think you might be on to something, maybe I am a dawg,I am a great person to be around and I am a loyal friend...Ill have to askthe people I surrounded with.. Thanks for the advice recommending a black male although in my case I am really into Asian men haha yummy Filipinos (looks like Hawaiian men) nice bronze skin, slanted eyes,thick hair viet, chinese, malay)cultured men who knows how to treat a woman and knows how to party.
    ok ..I agree that the original post was a hasty generalization yet stimulating conversation (which is why Im sitting in my office with a pile of invoices on my desk yet more interested in human sex behavior..
    
    
    

    Comment by shari [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 14:20

24. Oh.... my..... GOD!!!!!! I seriously cannot believe what I have just read. Are you kidding? Is this a Joke? Mr. Jed, was it your intention to anger most women who read this? To get a rise out of us? I think it's amazing there aren't more men that find this equally offensive. What you don't know about women, is a lot. How can you possibly classify women this way? Do you really think that because a women doesn't want to have ass sex, that she is reserved, or "boring" or is a "LESBIAN!?!?" My goodness, you really need to take some women studies classes, pronto! Not to mention classes on etiquette, I'd be afraid to date you, I'm sorry to any women who does. I think it's also interesting that you chose the number 3. Three types of women? is that because you weren't clever enough to think of any other shameless interpretations of what a women is and what she wants? There are no three types of women when it comes to anything. Everyone both male and female are unique. It was a challenge to continue to read your idiotic ideas after the first few lines. It seems you have an extremely distorted image of women. You sadden me.

    Comment by Nix [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 17:02

25. I for one like your blog. Its funny. People should chill out! Its your thoughts, they dont have to agree with them!

    Comment by Linds [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 18:00

26. your right.... they don't have to agree.

    Comment by Nix [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 19:11

27. Despite the "PC" belief that classifying is wrong, let me point out that our entire knowledge base is formatted in the system of categorization. We all categorize everything, we have to, it's how our brain works. The danger is in believing that those classifications are rigid and absolute. The only way to test that your own classification theory is correct, close, or way off, is to put it out there. Jed was simply sharing his own personal classification system, and I'm glad he did. If he hadn't, this discusion wouldn't have take place. On second thought...
    
    I'm kidding. Some great points have been made here, and more importantly, we've all gotten a glimpse into the minds of people with radically different outlooks than our own.
    It's all good.

    Comment by urbanchick [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 22:55

28. You know what's most mind blowing to me out of all this conversation? That people not only consider having sex AT ALL with someone they don't trust completely, some actually go through with it!
    
    Anal sex is a matter of trust? I can't imagine wanting to spend time alone in a room with someone I don't trust, let alone with my clothes off and orifices exposed to that person!

    Comment by Euphoria [Member] — 07/14/05 @ 03:09

29. I think that it is good to get a man's point of view on some of the subject matters women are interestd in knowing what the man is thinking. If you ask your man he probably will tell you what you want to hear. Jd has no incentive here to say what he thinks we want to hear so I see it as Jed is a guy who actually sat down and thought about the subject and wrote what he thought about it as honestly a possible. I thought it was interesting.

    Comment by shari [Member] — 07/14/05 @ 10:08

30. I personally think I'm the 3rd type. Nothing really bothers me but I don't have to have it 24/7. Unfortunately there are things you have to think about when you are playing around with anal. If you are an above average guy...well your probably out of luck, and if your girls says go for it and it works, well you might want to double up that condom next time. So size does matter with anal. So you average guys out there, this is your time to shine:) Also patience matters. You need to be slow with lots of lub, you can't just go for it. Last but not least you both have to be comfortable...just laugh about it if your uncomfortable. I mean it is something different and just cause your laughing doesn't mean your not taking it seriously. So go for it, with the right partner it can be very enjoyable. Ok thats my 2 cents haha

    Comment by Malady [Visitor] — 07/14/05 @ 10:10

31. Aside from the over characterizations of your female stereotypes, this was a pretty funny read...I have to say, I hail from the land of the third type of girl. I have NEVER had anal sex, but would be willing to try. Though I have to confess, a few weeks ago, in an effort to get that super FRESH feeling that can only come from a good douching, I decided to give myself a cleaning. Well, let's just say that in my zeal to get clean, I made a foolish mistake. I'd never douched before. But I expected some action that night and wanted to be prepared. So I read the instructions and stepped into the shower. The smell was pleasing, though I was struck by the overwhelming wonder as to why I'd want my vagina to smell like a fresh meadow? Anyway, I inserted the hose and squeezed the plastic bottle. It was at this point, after the squeeze, that I realized that the hose was not exactly inserted into the correct hole. I unfortunately stuck the hose up my ass and instead of getting that fresh meadow smell in my vagina; I ended up giving myself an ENEMA. Yes, that's right. I gave myself a fresh meadow enema. Because no sooner did I squeeze the bottle, then the hunched over cramps that can be associated with a nasty case of bowel problems began. And I crab walked my way to the toilet, cursing my inaccuracy all the way...Now, I tell this story because even though I did not enjoy the sensation of the fresh meadow enema, I am hopeful that anal sex wouldn't feel the same and I am curious to try it.

    Comment by Sparkleplenty [Visitor] — 07/14/05 @ 14:57

32. LMAO.. How the hell can you not tell your vagina from your anus? that is hilarious..sorry to laugh at your pain but I think that while you have a clean asshole would be the perfect time to indulge in anal sex, heck you should put yourslf down for som hardcore asslicking,because youd be all fresh and clean down there. Whike it was entertaining to read, I'd never repeat that story to anyone..like..ever again.

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/14/05 @ 18:19

33. Well, what about a combination girl? The girl who is all three? Every woman has their days. I would probably be telling the truth when I would say that many women would be apt to try one night, and not the next. It all really does matter what mood they are in, the setting, how she is being treated and what not. A woman that would not have anal sex with one man, might be having anal sex all the time with another man. This is the truth. Women are very fluctuating and each man has a different effect on each woman. Now the tatoos arent going to dissapear, but woman have that way of fitting into their sexual environments. They are intuitive and know when they feel comfortable. If I were a man, the only woman I would not go for is the woman who is all out buttscrewing every man possible!!!! Honestly men, dont worry. Sometimes, if your woman is seeming a little uptight, just saying the right thing to make her comfortable will let you test out anal sex. For all she knows, she has been missing out!!!

    Comment by Linzalicious [Member] — 07/14/05 @ 19:34

34. All I have to say is that you don't want to put it in the VAGINA after you put it in the POOPER! You DO have very sensitive G spots in the bung hole and CAN recieve pleasure from inserting a finger in each hole and trying to snap. Also toys inserted into the anus can make for 10 times better vaginal sex as well. Just think about the possibilities!
    So I would say........ Why fucking not! Try something new. Try the toys first. You will be surprised. Most adult shops should be able to point you in the right direction. Start small it's okay.
    
    Don't forget that YES YOU CAN CONTRACT DISEASES THROUGH THE BUTTHOLE SO USE PROTECTION EVERY TIME AND DON'T FORGET THE LUBE!!!!!!!!!

    Comment by tinytoes [Member] — 07/15/05 @ 17:17

35. that was a good

    Comment by mayanmade24 [Member] — 07/18/05 @ 00:16

36. jesus, i was on vacation so i didn't get to read all this until now.
    
    anyways the point of the column was to initiate discussion which it did.
    see the whole point is we're going to hire a woman to write her own column where she can call me a pig or ignore me all together.
    
    of course i don't know everything about women. first off i'm a dude. secondly the column is supposed to be kinda funny and not taken so seriously. being a guy who has dated a lot of women i do have my own feelings on certain things. i wouldn't expect 30 women to agree with me on my ideas. that's why ten years from now i will hopefully be divorcing one of you. and no i will not be taking women's study classes in the meantime.

    Comment by Hawkwind [Member] — 07/18/05 @ 14:16

37. Hopefully 10 years from now we'll have a dirty radio talk show we could kick Ryan Seacrest off the air and I could still call ya a pig? Of course we could talk shit about the bitch you'd be divorcing, and you could join me for classes at Alcoholics Anonymous.

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/19/05 @ 20:59

38. Jed, you said that half the time you're right and to all of my girls out there...He's actually right...well, so far! you can out us in those categories. And to all of you anal sex IS fun! If you dont like it, buy a strap on and tell your man that you wanna take over this time. This got me wondering. An ass is an ass. Do guys who like anal sex are most likely the ones who end up being bisexual? I've never done a threesome but I did play a prank on one of my friends (scott). Hey scott if you're reading this..Im sorry but I'll write it in my blog. The story is just too damn funny! lol.

    Comment by insatiable4fun [Member] — 07/20/05 @ 07:16

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