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11/21/05

Girls just wanna have fun

Filed under: Life — Hawkwind @ 02:07:33 pm

I got an e mail from a good friend of mine the other day. She had just moved to a new city and while she has been dating a lot of different guys, she doesn't really feel the need to be tied down to any one person right away. I think that's a really smart way to look at things, especially when moving to a new city. You need to get out there and meet as many people as possible and if you tie yourself down to a relationship right away you'll probably end up missing out on a lot of opportunities to make friends.

The problem is that this is one of those girls who generally has only guy friends as opposed to girls. I'm sure that any dudes reading this have met a lot of women in their lives that for whatever reason only like hanging out with their guy friends. If you've ever listened to Tom Lykis or Chris Rock you know why these types of women should be avoided as far as dating goes. If you don't know, ask me and I'll tell you the reasons.

So anyway this girl wants to go out on dates with guys, be friends with guys, and get to know as many of them as possible. She doesn't however want to fuck any of them. And big surprise they all seem to just want sex.

My problem is that women should know by now that the ultimate goal for a man is always to fuck you. And preferably the sooner the better. This girlfriend of mine doesn't understand why she can't just be friends with any of these men she meets. The reason is that men don't want to be your friend. We're busy with our lives, we don't have time to sit around and listen to your problems or hear about your day or what your life goals are. We just want to get laid and when we figure out that we are not going to get laid we stop calling you. Of course we stop calling after we get laid for the exact same reason.

Sure I have girlfriends that are just friends and nothing more, but I don't go out with them alone or buy them dinner or take them out for a drink. That's what I do with my guy friends.

If a guy is taking you out for dinner or drinks he's trying to figure out how much money, time, or whatever else type of investment he needs to make to get into your pants. Nothing more.

Unless he's gay. He's not gay is he?

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oh Jed, Jed, Jed... I have been on countless dates with countless men where I have not given up the ass, was straight forward about not giving up the ass and still these guys were intersted in dating me - I have been dating the same guys for months and months and they are not gay. Its called a personality and I happen to have one. THe men that I hang out with love beeing around me, so much so they call me and scoop me up to go places and they pay for it, grant it Im the kinda chick that will pay from time to time say at a pool or dinner or drinks but thats when I insist... Believe it or not some men like to be in the company of a woman who is knowledgeable about things other than contraception, some men like to chill with a girl that can throw down in the kitchen, some men like a girl who is damn near funny.. I'm not getting at all what youre saying. Look maybe its the maturity level of the guy, if youre still immature, runnig around with a fucking hard on getting horney at anything that moves I mean I had enough of th at shit in Highschool. Dont listen to JEd. Jed's a kid. THere are quality men out there, who would honestly buy a woman dinner and drinks just to chill, the thing is to state your intentions up front. LAdies I have to say this though, there are men who love a challenge and when you tell them that you are not looking for anything, you're not giving up the ass etc. they get really motivated to win you over... but Jed's speaking from a high school level .. Jed its time to grow up and look past the pussy to something a bit more quality like forming genuine relationships with stong women who will probably make life long quality friends...
Comment by ICEQUEEN [Visitor] — 11/21/05 @ 20:50
It is really the same old truth that men and women are different. If there was no sexual organs on a male or female what would bring us together. Would men talk about sports? Only with women that truly enjoyed sports. Would women talk about shopping only with men that truly enjoyed it So most things that we communicate about are done to impress the other sex. In other words most men primp and preen only to impress women for sex. Take sex out of the equation and there would be a lot less interaction between the two groups. Of course there would be exceptions but not many. All you have to do is think of your passions and ask yourself if there was no possibility of sex involved would a man or women be interested in this also. I for one am glad that this is not a reality because I could not snuggle in bed with a man. the blogging one
Comment by the blogging one [Visitor] — 11/23/05 @ 09:12
well i only date men that is not gay not 10 men at a time like she does because that is dirty
Comment by SHANTE [Visitor] — 11/26/05 @ 12:51
maybe you didnt read the no sex part of how I date or he fact that i have been celebate for a year .. can you do that? Probably not..... see thats the problem with bitches i s that they think they have to fuck everybody that buys them a drink.. or offers... I'm glad that I dont have low self esteem or self worth and that I am sensible enough and personable enough to attract men who are mature enough to have a platonic friendship..
Comment by icequeen [Member] — 11/26/05 @ 13:55

11/21/05

Girls just wanna have fun

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