Insecurities...
Do you ever feel insecure? I do. I think everybody does, really. I don't think it is possible to live our finite lives as finite beings and not deal with some sort of insecurities. So if it is a part of life, does that necessitate that there is no other alternative. Does that lead us to believe that our only choice is to live with these insecurities, allowing them to dwell on our minds until they have eaten away the last vestiges of our confidence and personality? No, I don't think so. But, I do believe we have to acknowledge them. If we do not recognize our insecurities for what they are, then we cannot take steps toward a solution.
Insecurities result from our humanity. We are mortal, complete with all of the flaws, imperfections, shortcomings, and poor decisions that are cognizant of man and his finite existence. No trust can be put completely in what is finite, for there comes with that the realization that there will be an end to what can be accomplished. That limits are necessarily set on what is available. That also limits the trust we will put in ourselves, in our fellow man, and in what we can accomplish, or what we are able to do. No person can completely trust another person, because all people will meet an end at some point, and with that end must come the end of trust. One may trust to the point of death, but what after? There can be no eternal trust placed in fellow man, because man is not eternal. So then, our security, when based in ourselves, or even in another, whether it be parents, spouse, teachers, or mentors, is valid only for as long as that source of security is able to provide it. Throw into the mix bad decisions that result in divorce, hurt feelings, betrayed trust, and a multitude of other circumstances, and our personal security, when placed in ourselves or in another person or persons, becomes very precarious indeed.
But there is an answer yet. The answer comes in the form of One who can provide a security that is eternal, that is forever, that knows no limits and is based in a power and knowledge that is boundless and diminishes not. This Person said "Trust in the Lord, and lean not unto thine own understanding". Because, of course, our understanding is so very limited. But His is not. He will never betray your trust, He will never let you down, He will never seek His own ends. He is forever your Friend, your Counselor, your Shepherd. He is the source of perfect security. His Names is Jesus and He is eternal. When your trust is in Him, it will not end with death. He promises you a home with Him in Heaven.
Yes,, everyone has insecurities. But they can be covered by the peace that passes all of man's understanding, when your trust and confidence is placed in Christ.