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07/12/05

Hey Ladies

Filed under: Life — Hawkwind @ 12:43:03 pm

Hi ladies and welcome to the first annual Friendsation blog competition. It's not actually a competition, but I am looking to hire someone to be my counterpart on the website.

Basically the deal is that you'll choose one topic from the 5 below and write about it in your blog. I will choose the person that I think best suits the website.

It's not important whether you agree with me when it comes to sex and dating, I'm looking for someone who is smart, funny and open-minded when it comes to sex and dating. Most importantly the ideal person is someone who is not afraid to be themselves and speak their mind.

Ok good luck and feel free to e mail me any questions you may have.

Love Jed.

1. I believe that all humans are naturally bisexual (except for dudes, that's gross) what is your take on hooking up with girls. Is it different then hooking up with guys?

2. Tell me when you think it's acceptable to have sex with someone who you consider to be just a friend. Does someone always have to get hurt?

3. Have you ever changed your personality or the way you look to attract a guy's attention? If so did it work?

4. When having a one night stand do you think guys should be expected to call if they ask for your number? Have you ever told a guy not to call you later?

5. What is the point of dating? Do you think it's smarter to date multiple people at once narrowing down the perfect mate or just wait til the right guy comes along?

How to Blog

1. Log in to Friendsation
2. On Member Menu - click on My Blog
3. My Blog - it will open in left hand window
4. My Blog - on right side under calendar click on edit my blog
5. New window - edit my blog will open new window
6. Write Blog - write your blog and you will be able to save or preview your post

We are still working on kinks in the system. Looking forward to reading your views on life, love and sex.

Comments

  1. OK, so I'm old. But I guarantee, you will be interested, amused and entertained by my exploits. I am the "voice of wisdom" if you're looking for such a thing. I also love to write. I also love to talk about my exciting (and sometimes dangerous, stupid, life-threatening) exploits. I COULD lie and tell you that I am age-qualified to be your blog counterpart, but that wouldn't be right. So, if you are interested in a woman who's been there and done pretty much all THAT, please let me know.

    Comment by Joyce H [Visitor] — 07/12/05 @ 13:38

  2. Any and all girls are welcome to apply for the position. Age is a state of mind.

    Shawnee

    Comment by Hawkwind [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 13:44

  3. How exciting! Am I allowed to swear? I want to discuss adult novelties and things of that sort. I think it would be neat to do a sort of like truth and fib sort of thing about men and women etc.

    Comment by tinytoes [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 15:00

  4. feel free to be as creative as possible.

    Comment by nwgirl38 [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 16:34

  5. I am your girl so let me get to it, i know too much for my own good and i know i can hit it out the ballpark with both wit and wisdom, stay tuned....

    Comment by lulu24 [Member] — 07/12/05 @ 23:45

  6. Alright Jed I'll keep you posted

    Comment by Krystle [Visitor] — 07/13/05 @ 08:55

  7. ok maybe im a dumbass but they did say write one blog right to be considered?

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/13/05 @ 19:54

  8. I've tried joining so that I can apply, but the security image just says, "security image," which is obviously the wrong code-- and it won't let me join! Help!

    Comment by Erica [Visitor] — 07/14/05 @ 14:54

  9. humans are bisexual except for dudes (that's gross!!! icky poo!)... dudes know what humans are (except for dudes.. icky poo poo!!!)

    Comment by headbiznatch [Visitor] — 07/14/05 @ 23:01

  10. I have never tried to change my personality to attract a guy's attention. I am lucky to have attracted so many great guys but I have also had my share of jerks. I never change my personality and I never will because I want a guy to accept me for who I am, not for who I'm pretending to be... I like to play video games. I own a Playstation, a PS2, an Xbox, and a Nintendo 64. I have a Game Boy and a Game Boy Advanced. Most of the guys I know and the guys I have dated don't like video games and think that it isn't something a girl can enjoy. But I tell them: "well I like this type of entertainment. You don't see me bitchin' about the fact that you don't." That shuts them up for good. Kind of! But I have best friends who are guys and they say that I am their best friend because I understand them. They say that I am cool to hang out with because I'm not fake and I am not too girlish. When I asked them about what they meant, they said: "When we go out to restaurants, you eat. You don't pretend that you don't like the food. You are a great listener and you have a good taste in music. AND you don't want to go to a Celine Dion concert and you don't want to hear her when we're in the car." And all of this is true. I eat whatever I want, whenever I want. I don't eat meat or chicken, but I eat hotdogs, pepperoni pizza, Zinger Supreme (KFC). And I like grilled chicken. I lose all of the weight by hitting the gym regularly and working the treadmill. Never mind the sit-ups I do to ensure that I don't get fat over there. If a guy doesn't like me this way, there will always be someone who does. And THAT is good enough for me. Changing your personality just to attract someone's attention is not a great idea. Although the chances are they could work, you should always be yourself no matter what. Wanting to be accepted for who we are is a natural thing...It is what makes us human and what differs us from God's other creatures. There is a sense of security when you are with someone who accepts you for who you are. Sooner or later, your true self is bound to show up and if you are exactly what your partner despises, you'll only end up nursing a broken heart. When you change your personality, someone ALWAYS gets hurt. You could always change a few things about yourself, minor changes. Try to lose your vices or at least try to minimize them. For example, if you lie a lot or exaggerate about things, try to not lie and don't exaggerate. Because if the person you're with catches you in a lie, then he/she will think "if he/she lied to me about this, he/she can lie about other things too"...or maybe "what else has he/she has lied about?". Maybe this person will end up doubting your every word, and remember: TRUST is hard to gain, and when you lose it...You might not ever get it. There are so many examples I could give you but I decided to choose lying because it is a common human folly. We always think that no one will ever find out but there is a saying that goes "The chain of a lie is never long". About changing your appearance... I think that it is ok to change yourself a bit for the person you like. I don’t mean that you run to the hospital and have your breasts enlarged...I'm talking about a little makeup and a great outfit if you're a girl, and if you are a guy, put on the right clothes and the right haircut. You may not believe this, but I always tell my very shocked friends that I am willing to date a guy who weighs 800 pounds who I like and find interesting then date Brad Pitt whom I hate. (Yes people it's true, I DON'T like Brad Pitt). I put personality above appearance, but I am also human and I do become attracted to good looking men. But I always try to not let their appearance cloud my judgment. Now I don't want to get married. Ever. And the reason behind this isn't a secret from the people around me. I have been affected by my parents failed marriage (they aren't divorced but they might as well should be) and the failed marriages of so many people I know. 11 members of my family (uncles and cousins) have failed marriages and divorces to deal with. I know that maybe my marriage won't be like that, but I don't want to try. You might want to settle down one day, or you are with the person you're going to settle down with. Remember, looks never last. Although plastic surgery has come a long way, Ask yourself this question, do you want to be with a D cup 80 year old woman who resembles Carmen Electra, or a person who accepts you with all of your virtues and vices. A person you won't be ashamed to confess something to...A person who will lift you up when you're feeling down, who will make you laugh whenever you're in a lousy mood. Someone who isn't afraid to cry with you...someone who you know will never leave your side at the first sign of trouble, but will stick with you through the good times and the bad. This person does exist, and he/she isn't an angel, so you too will have to accept him/her with his/her virtues and vices. I hope you consider what I'm saying here,,, Good Luck!

    Comment by insatiable4fun [Member] — 07/16/05 @ 01:14

  11. weren't people supposed to write on their own blogs? not in your comment section?

    Comment by makeupgirl [Visitor] — 07/16/05 @ 10:42

  12. I think I like SHIVANNI! Did I spell that right? I was too lazy to take a second look. But you said dumbass and I like that. I think it's kinda hot.

    Comment by tinytoes [Member] — 07/17/05 @ 20:52

  13. :)

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/19/05 @ 20:40

  14. lol

    Comment by insatiable4fun [Member] — 07/20/05 @ 07:09

  15. the my blog link is not working.

    Comment by mya [Member] — 07/21/05 @ 02:48

  16. so whn does Jed decide again?

    Comment by Shivanni [Member] — 07/26/05 @ 21:11

  17. well im not sure where to begin i mean i read everyone elses and theres no way to compete with some of those anwsers. ok with the bi-sexual question, i too experimented with a best friend but found myself attracted to her and that caused problems between her boyfriend (my ex), her and myself. then as we spent more time together and talking about our feelings toward one another i noticed i started falling in love with her like a would a guy, same for her too. we decided to claim things down and not keep things going that direction anymore. then i moved away to be with a guy, now i still have feelings for her and i call her every now and then but i will not replace her. now about the changing your appearence to attract guyz attention that i have done once i dyed my hair a different color cause thats what he was attracted to. and did it work no, i think truelly its all in how you act towards the guy and if hes attracted to that. you could be the hottest gurl in the room and yes guyz will be attracted to you but the guyz i know if you dont have a brain then they dont want to talk. beauty and brains can go hand and hand sometimes. but again i cant compete with the other anwsers. thats just my two cents.lol

    Comment by beauitful87 [Member] — 07/28/05 @ 22:08

  18. Hey Jed & Shawnee-
    It's Lauren from Seattle-I'm still interested and I just posted my first blog-I'll post another with one of Jed's requested subjects. I was a little confused that's why I haven't blogged earlier.

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